Wednesday, January 29, 2014

What Homophobic Really Means


RTE and the IONA Institute 

The recent social media furor over RTE's apology for calling John Waters and Breda O' Brien 'homophobic' centered essentially around one word. One of the more bizarre statements I read while browsing the #IONA twitter stream was that 'homophobic is a word with a developing meaning’. A quick Google check of the 3 most dependable dictionaries in the world reveals a common definition of the word ‘homophobic’:

The Oxford dictionary defines it as ‘an extreme and irrational aversion to homosexuality and homosexual people’, the Collins dictionary defines it as ‘a strong and unreasonable dislike of homosexual people’ and the Merriam-Webster dictionary defines homophobic as ‘irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals’. There was no noticeable difference between the definitions, neither was there anything to indicate that the definition was in a state of continual change.

Each definition describes an attitude which is unreasonable and has no basis in reality or fact. Homophobia is one of thousands of phobias, all of which are described as irrational. Phobias are indefensible attitudes, cannot sensibly stand up for themselves, own no logical or credible arguments and are unpredictable. In fact a phobia is termed by some mental health experts as a psychiatric condition, requiring medical attention. The Philadelphia Mental Health Clinic says that for a person with a phobia, ‘exposure to the object or situation causes an immediate anxiety response or a panic attack’. These responses can range from screaming, washing hands and clothes after contact, heart palpitations, sweaty palms, adrenaline rush and extreme fear to feelings of impending doom and the avoiding of public or unfamiliar places. Treatment of phobias has many forms including cognitive behavior therapy and the learning of basic techniques such as muscle relaxation, deep breathing and refocusing skills.

The Daily Mail recently carried the story of a woman, Diane Freelove, who has Chloephobia, a phobia of newspapers. She must wash her hands after touching one, and says that if she sees a newspaper flash up on the TV screen , 'I must physically turn away'. If she has to buy a newspaper for some else, she uses gloves and a plastic bag to pick it up. Her phobia is extreme and inexplainable, yet it is a genuine problem for her. More common phobias include agoraphobia- fear of being in a place without being able to leave, claustrophobia - fear of being closed in and acrophobia - fear of flying.

Homophobia is, accordingly, an irrational fear of homosexual behavior and people who practice homosexuality. One would imagine that people with this condition have panic attacks and scream when they see or hear anything related to homosexuality, wash their hands and clothes after contact with homosexuals and generally avoid public places for fear they might meet a 'gay' person. All of the above would be irrational and unreasonable responses. John Waters and Breda O' Brien were called 'homophobic' recently on the Saturday Night Show; however I have yet to see John Waters experience a panic attack or Breda O'Brien start screaming loudly when faced with anything relating to homosexuality. Rather their responses to a lifestyle they disagree with have been measured, civilized, calm and always well-supported – in other words, reasonable and rational. Thence the obvious necessity for an apology from RTE. Also there is no doubt that any legal proceedings taken by Waters or O'Brien would most likely be overwhelmingly successful.


Moreover, it is ridiculous to term 'homophobic' as a word with a 'developing' meaning. It is the sign of a dishonest and unprincipled lobby group to begin restructuring and redefining when it is convenient for themselves. To call someone 'homophobic' is a serious declaration and one with extremely defamatory undertones. In the upcoming Same-Sex Marriage debate it would be nice to think that a educated and mature contribution can be made by the opposing side without that side being labelled irrational and unreasonable - simply because they hold a viewpoint that mainstream media disagrees with. If such a debate is rendered impossible due to bigoted name-calling, it will be a grievous slur on the professed democratic nature of our country.